Saturday, April 7, 2012

Day 28.

Dear New Husband,

What a great Saturday spent apart!

I feel like that sounds weird and perhaps slightly insensitive and cold. But I think a misconception many people have is that you spend every waking moment with your spouse and never need a moment alone again.

But the individual-ness and the together-ness must both be balanced and enjoyed. These are things you already know, but I know I need to write it down so I remember how necessary it truly is.

I am so enjoying seeing you become a part of my family. And enjoying that you love my family's kooky and zoo-y sense of humor as much as I do while we're laughing so hard we're crying whilst playing Apples to Apples.

I love you,
Your New Wife.

Friday, April 6, 2012

Day 27.

Dear New Husband,

I enjoyed spending time with you and my family today. Strolling around outside - not a place to be or a care in the world.

Today was so relaxing and I enjoy you getting to be a part of my family and celebrating important holidays with us. Such as my birthday. And Easter too. . . Do I need to go back and put Easter first? I think that's okay. That's not sacrilegious, right?

You are the best and I am enjoying these uneventful days with you!

I love you,
Your New Wife.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Day 26.

Dear New Husband,

How do I make it a point to bring Mad Libs and then not have any writing utensils?! Lame pants.

But I still throughly enjoyed our road trip today; solid quality time to just be together - whether talking or not talking. I cherish those moments so much with you and I'm so glad I get them with you.

And now I'm going to crash into a King sized bed. Because I want to savor not having to share a Queen. Because now I can sleep with the knowledge that you are nearby without feeling you nearby :)

I love you,
Your New Wife who sleeps like she lives: Spastically.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Day 25.

Dear New Husband,

I apologize that I become a giant baby. . . Well wait. I am 5'2". I hardly think you can count that as giant. How about 'overgrown' baby? That sounds better. Anyway, I am sorry I become an overgrown baby when I stub my baby of a toe on the wheel of your suitcase. I wanted to slap a kitten. And thanks for not being too annoyed when you brought me a band aid and I said: "That band-aid is too big for my baby toe." How atrocious.

I'm glad you found my note to you in your sock drawer. You know how horrible I am at keeping surprises secret. Because if you had packed your things to go visit my parents without looking in your sock drawer, I would've made up awkwardly random reasons for you to rummage in your sock drawer. And that just would've been uncomfortable for the both of us.

I'm so excited to have a mini-roadtrip with you this weekend (Don't worry, I already packed the Mad Libs) and to show you my most favorite of museums. And for you to meet the Layla dog. I'm clenching this as a win for us to get a dog. I've already told her that she has to be on her best behavior so we can win you over to the dog lover side. My sister-in-law has even said she may even spring for a new collar for Layla, just to win you over. The jig is up pal, you might as well raise the white flag now.

I love you,
Your New Wife who loves leaving you sweet notes, in your sock drawer, regarding otters and how much she loves you.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Day 24.

Dear New Husband,

I know all the enrollment nonsense with graduate school has got me in a funk; I'm incredibly bummed that I'm going to be missing our home group for the entire summer. But you have been encouraging and let me rant - two things a woman needs. Especially this woman.

As we continue to navigate new changes, which will occur for the rest of our lives, I hope we can always remember that we are each others cheering section and on the same side. And a few new treats from Ikea put salve on the frustration of botched enrollment.

I love you,
Your New Wife who is so pleased with how her birthday week is going.

PS - I really cannot tell you how glad I am to be sitting next to you on the couch, watching Downton Abbey. Mrs. O'Brien is suuuuuuuspect!

Monday, April 2, 2012

Day 23.

Dear New Husband,

You know how I know you love me? You spent the evening celebrating birthday week with me, complete with dinner at a wine bar and listening to the Dallas Symphony Orchestra's Brass Quintet, instead of eating wings, drinking brewski's (Is that still a thing? Brewski's?) and watching the end of the madness of March. What a hunk.

I'm so glad I married a man that looks at sweet baby-faced, 18-year-old college students who are so awkward and you're just as endeared as I am to them. I almost wanted to adopt that 18-year-old college Freshman at the concert tonight. . . That would've been too far, right?

No, seriously. Would it have been? I'm seriously contemplating this.

No. No. Boundaries. Too far, Liz. Too far.

I love you,
Your New Wife who may have an adopted 18-year-old boy for you to come home to instead of an adopted 3-year-old dog.

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Day 22.

Dear New Husband,

We have successfully budgeted for March and the beginning of April and we have successfully grocery shopped for the beginning of April. I feel empowered. Like we could take Dallas down, one manufacturer coupon at a time.

Thank you for taking care of me when I was hangry (That's when I'm so hungry, I'm angry/irritable) and for actually loving Downton Abbey as much as I do. In fact, right now, per your suggestion you're at Target, buying Season 2 so we can watch it tonight. Even though you don't like Gilmore Girls as much as I do, I'll take your love of Downton Abbey. Because right now, I feel so blessed that you appreciate PBS Masterpiece Theater and British Dramas as much as I do. You're the best. And I hope you know, everyday, that I think that.

I love you,
Your New Wife that will probably faint if you end up liking Doctor Who.